Savoring Oral Sex

Oral sex is simply the art of making sweet fine love using your mouth. If you thought this activity is easy, think again. There is more to oral sex than just toying with your partner’s genitals with your mouth. You have to incorporate art and skill in order to get a positive result, which simply means giving your man mind-blowing ejaculation or your woman an extra surge of orgasm.

When you are giving oral sex to a woman, it is popularly called cunnilingus whereas when you are giving it to a man, it called fellatio. What is involved in cunnilingus, you ask? Cunnilingus involves using your mouth and tongue to delicately stimulate a woman’s vulva. This is so delicate that it requires constant practice, patience, and your dedication to please your woman.

Patience is the drill when performing cunnilingus. Don’t go right in and attack her clitoris. The clitoris can be too sensitive for that much stimulation. Try working around it and licking the areas that surround her clitoris including her inner labia. When your woman starts reaching the point of climax, a fast rhythmic motion of your tongue would aid in getting there faster and making it last longer. Don’t let your tongue do all the work for you. The female body holds a number of erogenous zones and they are not all localized in her vulva. Try using your fingers as well, inserting it into her vagina for added stimulation. Reaching out to grab her breasts while you’re busy doing your work down there and also get a woman heightened with pleasure.

As for males, the process can be quite simple. Aside from placing your lips around a male’s shaft, the zest or enthusiasm that you place in performing the activity is equally important. Nothing says boring than you giving a blow-job or giving head without interacting with your man. You shouldn’t focus too much on sucking your man’s penis. You have to occasionally look at him, too. Tease him while you are down there busy playing with his penis.

The common complaints associated with oral sex, inhibiting quite a few people to try or enjoy it, is the smell or taste of a woman or man’s genitals. Males often complain that they can’t take the taste and smell of a woman’s vulva. If this is a problem, having your woman wash first before the procedure is done will make the task easy. As for men, the taste and smell of their semen is what puts a woman off. The basic solution to this problem is to eat right. What you want your semen to taste like depends on the food that you eat. Any group of food aside from dairy and asparagus can make your semen’s taste tolerable. Dairy and asparagus can produce quite a foul-smelling and foul-tasting semen. If you keep on going with this diet, you would have no hope of a woman willing to swallow your cum.

Oral sex just needs constant practice and your attention to your partner’s responses. You will know when you are performing oral sex the right way when your partner sounds and looks like he or she is enjoying it. If you keep on going in this direction, you and your partner will be asking for oral sex more and more.