Dos and Don’ts of Sexual Positions

There are plenty of dos and don’ts when it comes to sex and if you are man it is vital that you learn as many of these as you can. You don’t want her to be avoiding your calls after doing the deed, you want her to be so hooked on you that she can’t get enough.

One of the biggest mistakes that men all over the world make is not letting the woman have any say in the sexual position. Yes women like a guy who can take charge of the situation but that does not mean she wants to bed a bully. Be open to her suggestions and be aware that she may put them forth subtly. When you are with a woman sexually you have to always be paying attention to her needs. She may try to roll you over onto your back so she can climb on top for a ride, but you will not know if you are not paying attention. Many women are just not comfortable saying what they want out loud so you need to know how to read them. Oh and when she is on top don’t make it so that she has to do all the work, participate!

Another common misconception is that you should never put your weight on a woman. This can be a real killer of the mood if you catch my drift. Women like men like to have sex in order to feel closer to the person they are sleeping with. It is about intimacy and in many cases the more places in which you touch the better. That feel of skin on skin is priceless and you have to keep that in mind. I am not saying to crush her at all times so she cannot even breathe, but get close and relish the luxury of it. You will learn from her body signals what is too much weight and pressure and what is just right and if in doubt just ask her, she’ll be touched that you even thought of it.

When it comes to sexual positions being adventurous is always good but don’t overdo it. Some women are shy about sex and they may not feel comfortable with themselves or with you yet so you may want to take that into consideration. Give the girl a little time to get used to having you see her naked and you’d be amazed at how much more exciting she gets in bed.

Another thing to consider when it comes to crazy sex positions is the fact that while they may be crazy they may not be all that comfortable. Comfort and pleasure are the most important things when it comes to sex and if that means sticking with the old standbys then that is what you should do. Creativity can only get you so far after all.

Sex should be fun and as long as you and your partner are enjoying the sexual positions that you are employing then all is right with the world. Relax, take your time and experiment only as much as you are both comfortable with it.