WTF! She Faked It!

It would a wonderful world if all the orgasms had were real ones but that is simply not the case. A vast--and I mean vast-- number of women fake orgasms every single day. Why do they do it? That is a good question and one worth exploring a little.

Reason ONE: They don’t want to hurt the mans feelings

Let’s face it, women are a bunch of softies and they feel bad telling men that they are just not doing it right. Women know that a mans prowess is one of this most prized possessions and if he feels that he cannot perform in bed then his confidence in life in general is going to collapse like a year old balloon. These kind and misinformed women thing that it is better to fake an orgasm than burst his bubble and tell him the truth.

Reason TWO: They think it’s their fault

People in general both men and women are not as informed and educated about their bodies as they should be and this leaves women feeling less than sure about their sexual issues. Some women believe that they are not even capable of having an orgasm when often times they are just not doing the things that would excite them because they don’t know about it. There are many women out there that fake orgasms because they think that telling their man is not going to do any good because he could not fix the problem if he tried. Why have both of you hurting for it when only one of you has to suffer, that is the mentality.

Reason THREE: It is too much of a pain being honest

This reason is somewhat related to reason one in that it is all about the man and his needs. Some women don’t want to both telling him because the effort that has to go into repairing his ego is just not worth it to them. Let’s face it some men are real babies and they can really get their nose out of joint when they think they suck in bed. Tons of women, especially if they are not that into the guy don’t care enough to deal with all that drama.

The sad facts of fake orgasms

The reality of faking orgasms is that it causes both parties to suffer more than they have to. If a women would be honest with the man right off the bat and let him know that she is not getting off then they would be able to work together to fix the problem. Sure the guy may feel a little slighted at first but he is going to feel that much better when he finally does please her right.

On the other hand if he is not told and time passes only for him to find out later, he is going to feel stupid and truly worthless not to mention highly embarrassed. I bet that a lot of relationships have been seriously wounded if not ended due to fake orgasms. We laugh about fake orgasms but really it can be a serious thing in a relationship, not just a matter of sex but one of trust as well.