The Female Orgasm

Orgasms are very different for both men and women. While it is obvious that in general men have an easier time having one, some say that the orgasms that women have are more powerful and earth shaking.

There is a cycle to sex and this sexual response cycle, like all other kinds, has an end and this ending is called an orgasm. During orgasm both men and women have muscle contractions and a wonderful feeling of release and euphoria. During and after orgasm there are also hormones that are releases that can lend a feeling of relaxation and even sleepiness. This is why some people have a hard time staying awake after sex.

Many women find it hard to have orgasms, in fact there are a large number of women who claim to never have had an orgasm during sex in their life. This can be due to several different factors. First of all, if a woman in not comfortable during foreplay and sex, the chances of her climaxing is lessened extensively.

The lack of orgasm could also be due to insubstantial clitoral stimulation. If the clitoris is not stimulated during sex there is less of a chance of climaxing. This can be rectified by simply telling your partner you pay more attention to that area, and if that does not work a girl can always take matters into her own hands. Literally.

Masturbation is always a good way for women to have an orgasm. Many who cannot climax during sex have no trouble bringing themselves pleasure. This is due to a high level of comfort as well as the fact that when you are in control you know just where to touch and how hard and even how fast.

It is important to note that women do not have to be penetrated in order to climax. It is often enough to simply have the clitoris stimulated. This can be done in all manner of different ways. One can use a hand or finger, a sex toy or even oral sex.

And an orgasm stemming from clitoral stimulation is not the only form of orgasms either. There is also the famed g spot orgasm. The g spot is a place in the vagina that is not exposed to the light of day. It is up inside and shaped rather like a pea. This little nub responds best to pressure rather than just touch alone. These orgasms are the most powerful of all.

More and more people are learning about the g spot orgasm and it is changing the way women have orgasms. There are many books written on the subject and even special sex toys made to help women experience this climax even when alone.