Learning to Please Your Lady

There are all kinds of reasons why oral sex is such a great idea. First of all, it is much safer than other forms of sex, and not only that, some would even argue that it feels better too!

Both men and women can get pleasure out of oral sex, both on the receiving end of it as well as the giving end. There is something magical about knowing that you are doing something to make your partner feel wonderful and when you have mastered the art of oral sex, this is a pleasure you will be feeling plenty of.

So how do you give oral sex? Well, first of all that will depend on whether you want to be bringing a man or a woman to orgasm. But there is one thing that stays the same no matter the sex of your partner and that is the fact that you need to have good communication to please. This is because not everyone likes the same things and some prefer certain styles. If you cannot communicate these things to each other you will have a big problem when it comes to getting things just right.

If you are looking to learn as much as you can about oral sex then it is a good idea to take a trip to the local bookstore, there you will find all kinds of helpful books on the subject. The online stores are even better as you will find much more selection and the prices are often top notch. Sites like this are another resource that you should drain for all they are worth, they are free and filled with tips and ideas of oral sex ideas that you can try.

Giving women oral sex

Giving oral sex to women is a little more complex than when it comes to giving it to me. There is a lot more going on down there on females whereas men are usually happy as long as the penis is being touched in some way, any way really!

Oral sex on women is called cunnilingus and it is a skill that all men should learn, it might just be the best way to really impress a woman. For starters you need to know that the most sensitive area of the vagina is the clitoris. This is the place that needs to be stimulated in order to make a woman climax during oral sex. That does not mean that all of your attention should be focused there however, in some cases that can be too much stimulation and that can actually detract from the experience.

It is better to start slow and try licking all around the area, lick up and down the clit right to the opening of the vagina. Pay close attention to what she responds to best. What seems to get her the most excited? Make note and come back to that again and again.

You may also want to swirl your tongue around the clit in different directions, this can really do wonders for a woman. Many women also enjoy having a tongue inserted into their vagina, this is a form of intercourse that can really get her juices flowing.